Missing Pieces of History
–
I have pondered what Te Tiriti signatories – Māori and Pākehā - had in mind.
Birds, Trees & Buttonholes
–
This is the time of the year when my favourite skirt won’t do up…
Remembering Cal & Glynn
–
Cal once told us, “I’ve never left things unsaid. I think it’s so important that everybody knows how you feel about them. I never want any of the people I love to be in any doubt how much they matter to me.”
Small Things, Big Impact
–
A step-stool for starters, but another small thing with a big impact has been opening up a conversation with friends and whānau about bringing more kupu – more Māori words – into our everyday lives…
Brave Words
–
It’s a thing Pākehā can be nervous of, right? That we look like we’re dropping in a bit of te reo to earn a Good Girl Biscuit, for approval from “woke” friends, to make ourselves look… superior somehow?
Baking Is Also For Girls
–
A fancy biscuit tin was found – RSA red poppies, collectors edition – and filled with Tim’s signature shortbread …
How To Thrift
–
I’ve reframed how of think about donating to local op-shops. It’s not only about me “getting rid of what I don’t want”, it’s about “gifting” things to someone else.
Why We Op-Shop
–
Canvas a decent-sized Facebook group and you’ll discover many of us live in a world of pre-loved treasures…
Second-Hand Challenge
–
Most of us would like to do good things for the planet, but don’t know where to start. Here’s somewhere…
Matariki 2025
–
If anyone in the family deserves a movie, it’s my great-great-grandmother on my father’s mother’s side. Seabee Adelaide Tomkins was born at sea on the ship, the “Bee”, off the coast of Adelaide in 1857.
Reading Makes You Happy
–
The ancient Greeks inscribed “A Healing Place For The Soul” above the door to the library of Thebes and I have to say, this intense period of reading has done excellent things for my spirits.
The Mother’s Day Column
–
The night before, I gave Holly a letter which she read aloud to me and her godmothers…
The Great Road Cone Divide
–
Top prize in the 2024 World of Wearable Art featured a headpiece made of road cones and a dress in high-vis orange. Photo by Stephen A’Court.
Happy Easter Tooth Fairy
–
While everyone else is looking forward to the Easter Bunny this weekend, I will be celebrating the Tooth Fairy.
On the Buses
–
They were all mates, called Dave-oh or Biff-oh or Muzza, representing a range of views from centre to right, rugby to league, Holden to Ford.
Daylight Saving - What to do with that spare hour?
–
Each year as Daylight Saving comes to an end – our clocks go back this Sunday – the big question is, “What shall I do with that extra hour?”
But What Was She Wearing?
–
There is a shift, we’re hearing, in corporate America towards encouraging ladies to dress more like… well, “ladies”. Think traditionally feminine – skirts and dresses with high heels, rather than trousers with flats.
Homecoming #2
–
There is, we agree amongst us before Saturday night’s show time, a particular smell to a theatre. Not just this one – the Levin Little Theatre – but possibly to each of them dotted around our country in the towns that have been careful enough to keep them…
Homecoming #1
–
Knowing where you come from can be a tricky thing for some of us. I grew up, for example, in a town my family settled into shortly before I was born, and then left once I’d flown the coop – which makes it my hometown, but not where my wider family is from.
DEI - Handy in a warzone
–
Whenever I hear anyone talking disparagingly of Diversity, Equity and Inclusion, it reminds me of that time I spent in a war zone.